I often feel like there's something wrong with me because I love feeling submissive; especially when it's really rough. Like, the whole "rape" role play turns me on more than anything else, and I'm wondering if that's okay for a young female to like?
i totally understand how you feel, because i felt the same way. and i eventually came to terms with the fact that being a strong, independent woman takes a lot of energy, and sometimes it feels great not to be the one in charge. also, i don’t think there are right and wrong things to like, just particular things to which each of us reacts. my only advice would be that if you’re going to act on these fantasies, you make sure you have a partner that you trust and with whom you can be clear about what it is that you both want to do, how far you want to take it and what your safeword and/or sign is going to be. if you are comfortable with each other and non-judgmental enough, it can be an incredibly intense and satisfying intimate experience.